Post Edited By Moderator (Howlyncat) : 12/11/2008 3:01:24 PM (GMT-7)
You posted this same post in depression today but I am going to answer it here.
On 9/24/08 you posted your husband was cheating on you and did not have respect for you.
After reading today's post I have to say, If I was you ( which I am not) I would drop kick him to the curb and move on with my life. I think a bit of assertiveness on your behalf would help you right now.
You are getting your self esteem kicked up one side and down the other. Your better then this.
Are you seeing a therapist or on any meds? I am afraid this man's behavior could turn abusive toward you. Reach out to your family and friends and we are here to support you.
Kitt, Co-Moderator: Anxiety/Panic & Depression& GERD Forums*~*
Here are some of the best links I have found, use them well and don't stay in a dangerous situation as you may be his next game. I don't mean to scare you, just a wake up call hun.
Hi, you have been given some great advice and resources it's up to you now to make the move. It's soo hard, it really is, but many of us have been in a similar situation and we are here to listen and support. You can get through this. Just imagine life living independent of him and every time you start doubting your decision..remember that picture of you, safe and free.
It helped me leave an abusive relationship and I hope it helps you to make the decision.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. we can only give our advice and be here to support you. You have to do the hard work.
May you have peace within,