Gail, you and your daughter are in my prayers. She sounds like she needs spiritual protection for what this man is going to put her through. it must hurt you so much to see you daughter in such a difficult situation, i can only imagine.
I claim the promise of Phillipians 4:6 for you and your family,
love always, Maz XX
I think you have a right to be anxious but let's ramp it down a bit, stay in the moment but be on the alert at all times is my motto when one of my children is in trouble.
I had an ex-husband that was similiar to your daughters but he would do scary things and he too would call my parents who lived 100 miles away and tell them stories that were lies. He would say I was out in bars when in reality I was at work. He was very jealous and we had 3 children. I worked afternoons and he was a danger to my children.
He would drive to where I worked and flatten all 4 of my tires to see if one of my "boyfriends" would bring me home. I would call him crying and had no way to get home.........and why when I was working in a factory to help us support our family would he do this to me? Beause I was a **** he would say.
When finally I would get home, he would be crying and oh so sorry.................
One night he came and scratched the big "F" You in my car door with a nail...............then he cried and spray painted over it with a different color paint. He would beg me not to leave, how could I stay? I stayed 7 years and then had to leave.
I took my kids and we sold the house and I lived alone still working in a factory evenings with a sitter taking care of my children.
I met my current hubby, the love of my life, and he took over as the father the children needed. We have been married for 37 years now.
You have my prayers and all my support and know I understand all to well. I lived your daughter's life many years ago with no one to turn to. My stepmother did not want me and 3 kids at her place. It was my dear Father who never got mad who finally blew his cork. He told my ex" If she is so bad why don't you let her go?" That gave me permission to go as back then a divorcee was not approved of much.
Gentle Hugs to you.
PS, I just figured out when my anxiety started LOL
Kitt, Co-Moderator: Anxiety/Panic & Depression& GERD Forums*~*
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