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Howlyncat
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   Posted 1/22/2009 12:20 PM (GMT -7)   
...This Very unselfish and luving ,giving ,supportive woman NEEDS our support.........She is defiinte need of the FAMILY now not later..........
I will not betray her confidence but I know she will explain when she does come on
REMEMBER all that Lil Sis has done to help you and me in our times of dire need ........
PLZ do show her she is not lone an she has the family to vent to and help her get thru yet another darn thing
I love you Lil sis and I am with you thru thick and thin.........ALWAYS........Love.........Big sis cry


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   Posted 1/22/2009 12:45 PM (GMT -7)   
Skitt just as you are always here for us, we are here for you. You are never a burden to us, and you need to remember that. Just as you are here to support us, we are always here to support you. I love you Skitt you know that!!! If there is anything I can do, please don't hesitate to ask, I will always be there for you.

I love you and am always praying for you.

God Bless,
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Tirzah
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   Posted 1/22/2009 1:15 PM (GMT -7)   
Kitt,

I am praying for you & your family.

hugs,
frances

KiwiKaz
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   Posted 1/22/2009 1:28 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Kitt,

My thoughts are with you.

Hugs and love,

Karen

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   Posted 1/22/2009 1:30 PM (GMT -7)   
((((Kitt)))) Thoughts and prayers are with you,
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Corrie_1
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   Posted 1/22/2009 1:36 PM (GMT -7)   
Kitt!

:) We're all here for you! I'm new to the forums but I can already tell how amazing you are and how much you mean to everybody here.

Please take care - we're all pulling for you.
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Green Grove
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   Posted 1/22/2009 2:02 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm always here for you lil sis and my prayers go out to you in your time of need and comfort.  I wish you nothing but the best dear friend.
 
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Aries8
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   Posted 1/22/2009 2:19 PM (GMT -7)   
Hey, Sweetie! Come on here and let us know what's going through your head! You can always turn to us! We vent, we whine, we ask for support. It's your turn! Please hang in there and I'll continue praying for you!
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ocean1
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   Posted 1/22/2009 2:33 PM (GMT -7)   
((((((((((((((Kitt))))))))))))))))))).  You are one of the rocks that holds this place up and you are always here for me and the rest of this wonderful family.  I know you will talk to us when you can.  Know that you are not alone and we are here for you my friend.
 
Sending you gentle huggles and warm thoughts. 
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Mazfire
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   Posted 1/22/2009 2:41 PM (GMT -7)   

my precious Kitt, you are being prayed for and i am sending you love and hugs aplenty. love you soooo much,

Maz XX


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MMMNAVY
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   Posted 1/22/2009 2:42 PM (GMT -7)   
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((KITT)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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nervymeg
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   Posted 1/22/2009 2:45 PM (GMT -7)   

Dearest Kitt,

I am sending my warrior faeries to come and give you some strength..they will be the ones with little cans of extra strong diet coke brandishing little swords shocked

I am putting my arms around you now in a huge but gentle hug, so you can take some deep breaths and know that you are safe and loved. Take some time for you now dear friend and remember to put your superwoman cape in for drycleaning again..phoof!

Love you so,

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hekofaride
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   Posted 1/22/2009 4:07 PM (GMT -7)   

((((((Kitt))))))

From reading your response to my post, I was worried something more was going on.

I'm very new to this forum, however; I knew immediately that this is a place of warmth, comfort, and understanding.

I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

(((((Hugs)))))

Karen


Junebug05
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   Posted 1/22/2009 4:46 PM (GMT -7)   
Kitt,
 
I'm so sorry that you are struggling right now.  Prayers and hugs for you dear one.  Let me know if there is anything I can do for you!

stkitt
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   Posted 1/23/2009 9:06 AM (GMT -7)   

Thank you all

I am back in the moment and at the moment it is cold, with snow flurries.

Thank you for the hugs, the prayers and the support as always.
You are family.................all the way.
**************I Wish You Pease***************
 
Kitt
 

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Aries8
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   Posted 1/23/2009 10:25 AM (GMT -7)   
Kitt, hope you're feeling better today!! Thinking of you.....
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stkitt
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   Posted 1/23/2009 4:12 PM (GMT -7)   

I am much better today and am spending the day with my sister. I have my control back and sometimes I just crumble, don't know why....................family demands did it this time.

Thank you so much for your support.

Hugs

Kitt


 

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nervymeg
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   Posted 1/23/2009 4:58 PM (GMT -7)   

Dear Kitt,

I am worried about you angel smhair smhair smhair Please email me when you get a chance bella.

Love, Megs


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stkitt
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   Posted 1/24/2009 2:56 PM (GMT -7)   

Megs and all,

I am just kind of stuck right now.  I love my sister and  I know this is about her.  Her surgery date is 2/16 so they were going to head out this morning to go home to North Dakota and return on the12th of February. I talked to her on the phone last night aroung 8:00 PM and she said they would be leaving at 7:00 AM this morning.

I called her on her cell phone this morning (that is all she uses) and it was not turned on so I did not think to much of that. about 10:00 she called and I said how far are you (10 hour drive) and she said we are home..................

I said you mean you have not left yet and she said "No, we came home last night and when I talked to you we were on our way. I did not tell you so you would not worry"

Whoaaaaaaaaaaaa, here is where I get angry as I want the right to decide if I should worry or not and I am not a baby.  I am always  being called and used when they need me but otherwise back to the on a need to know basis.

Am I over reacting?  Yes I know I am but I would not have worried about them, I would have slept fine as they have driven the drive many times over my life time but often right on through Minneapolis without my knowldege as they were headed else where and did not have time to stop.

Oh boy...................I am hurt..............dang this stupid anxiety and depression.

This is what happens when the one sibling is raised seperate from the others, you feel like an outsider all you life.

Yesterday my niece said to me at lunch "You will probably be having house guests when Mom has her surgery as my hubby and daughter will be coming for the surgery" 

They did the same thing to me when they got married on August 1st, asked me in front of everyone at the reception if their daughter could stay at our house while they were in Jamaica................I love the little girl and was glad to do it but to just hit me with it in front of an audience felt like I was ambushed. When they got back from Jamica they came to pick up their daughter and asked to all spend the night .

I have a very small house folks and a husband with Crohn's who has to have his meals and personal time on a schedule. We don't have an outhouse either. smhair

OK, I vented.   I guess after 6 months of this going on I have a right to vent. 

Oh yes and one more thing..........when the check comes after we have ate at restaurant they just let it sit there and don't even look...................one lunch cost me $74.00.  I now just lay down my share, usually more then my share, like 1/2 the bill. Now days that is nearly my whole months budget for me as I keep out $100.00 cash for myself for the little things that may come up. I  am willing to go to McDonalds but nope, it has to be a nice resaturant as my sister does not want to stand in line.  She could sit down and I will stand in line so then I might have money left over to buy that book I saw and have been wanting to get.

Oh dear, I sound so selfish and bitter.  Off with my head.

Thanks for reading.

Kitt


 

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Howlyncat
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   Posted 1/24/2009 3:23 PM (GMT -7)   
nono ...YOU have the utmost right IMHO to get ticked off
THEY keep useing and abusing you to the point where it hurts you and then your anger kicks in......mine would too
'I told you what my thoughts were
Lay a 20 in the book and set it in the middle of table.."saying well all ........here is my share"
Maybe I am sounding a bit rude but I think they have done enough harm to you and in the position you are in..........making your anxiety rise and kick in...........
 
YOU would think they would give you a break ""
 
AS for wanting to use your house for staying in could they not ask politely first and foremost
Toby had a shedule I know all to well and it does interfere with our routine as Crohnies
YOU are also doing a outside job that is highly importasnt to you  and your steps along this route of the figth
Keep your head high lil sis
YOU have not done a darn thing wrong IMHO
Talk to you in the morrow
Love
Big sis  

**Thanks be for Ma Bell EHH lol......Love big sis wink


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Post Edited (Howlyncat) : 1/25/2009 9:52:30 AM (GMT-7)


stkitt
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   Posted 1/25/2009 8:58 AM (GMT -7)   

Thanks Big Sis and Nikki,

I am glad you both understand how I feel right now, and I am trying to just let go, but for me that is hard.  I will not post anymore dribble about this issue, it is my problem to work through and I do not want to appear like I do not love my sister, I really do.

Bless each of you.

Hugs
Kitt


 

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Howlyncat
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   Posted 1/25/2009 9:41 AM (GMT -7)   
I KNOW you do lil sis
I just know it becomes too overwhelming
at times being taken advantage o by them all

Glad we yakked for a wee bit today wil call you tomorrow am
Love
Big sis...........Always

smilewinkgrin


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   Posted 1/25/2009 1:04 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm sorry I was not on yesterday to be of support my dear lil sis. I am glad you are able to put things into perspective, but I also feel that you give so much of yourself to some many around you, that you have to get something back for Kitt!!! This is not selfish and you have done nothing wrong. . . You are just too good of a person and people love to walk all over us sensitive types because they know they can. I know that the majority of people that do this realize what a great person you are, but it would be nice for you to hear more than just once in awhile. . . Kind of left sitting and wondering the whole "why" thing. I know this is how I feel at times. Please do get out your emotions and let us be of comfort to you my sweet friend :) I am stubborn too and feel like I'm whining when I say anything about me, but we are members too that deserve some help when needed :)

Love you bunches!!! You are such a wonderful and beautiful person :)

Your Bro,
Sam :)
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nervymeg
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   Posted 1/25/2009 3:56 PM (GMT -7)   

Kitt, we VENT at whim................ tongue

You (please) let it all out where we love you so.


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stkitt
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   Posted 1/25/2009 4:34 PM (GMT -7)   

If I let out all the years of trusting people only to be used by them at their whim I would expand the bandwidth.  LOL.

I am fine and no more to vent about. Life goes on.

Kitt


 

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