Member's Daily Roll Call Tuesday 2/24

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stkitt
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   Posted 2/24/2009 6:22 AM (GMT -7)   
Good Morning Family..........Happy Tuesday.  I thought I would give Sam a break today and post "the" Roll Call.
 
An old proverb says, "He that cannot ask cannot live".  If you want  answers you have to ask your self questions.........
 
Today's Question:
 
Am I a nice person?  idea
 

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Green Grove
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   Posted 2/24/2009 6:30 AM (GMT -7)   
Yes I am :) And I'm so nice to myself, I'm going to actually take a nap for a few, lol. . . Thanks Kitt!!!
Much Love, Hugs, Peace & Comfort . . . Your Bro . . . Sam :)
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stkitt
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   Posted 2/24/2009 6:43 AM (GMT -7)   

I am nice but I always feel I could do better,  that is my own insecurity that raises it's ugly head.

Sam.............go take a nap.  yeah


Nanners
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   Posted 2/24/2009 7:39 AM (GMT -7)   
Yes I believe I am. But in my personal opinion you can never try too hard to be nice. Its always a work in progress.
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Sailorpizza
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   Posted 2/24/2009 9:24 AM (GMT -7)   

Hi All :)    *hugs*

I think I am a nice person, what I need to learn is how to be a bit assertive smilewinkgrin

Happy Tuesday everyone!! scool


Celey
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   Posted 2/24/2009 10:33 AM (GMT -7)   
I am too nice for my own good... //^_^\\'... I wish I were a little bit tougher and not afraid to hurt people's feelings to 'get the job done'... but... I just can't do it.

On the other hand, I kind of like being too nice, sometimes... By being very nice, I have saved many lives.

.... Mostly, that of insects and spiders because I refuse to inflict harm on another creature if it can be avoided...
I think I am being picked on by life, sometimes. But's that okay. Life and I are good buddies... I know life doesn't mean no harm. It just is the way it is. I can accept that.


Nanners
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   Posted 2/24/2009 12:01 PM (GMT -7)   
Celey you are definetly a nice person. So tender and caring towards all and even to the wee creatures of the earth. I just love you girl!!

Hugs,
Gail *Nanners*
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Been living with Crohn's Disease for 33 years. Currently on Asacol, Prilosec, Estrace, Prinivil, Diltiazem, Percoset prn for pain, Zofran, Phenergan, Probiotics, and Calcium and Xanax as needed. Resections in 2002 and 2005. Also diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and Osteoarthritis and Anxiety. Currently my Crohns is in remission.
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Aries8
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   Posted 2/24/2009 12:27 PM (GMT -7)   
I am so nice, it would make you barf. I've been told I'm too nice and that people will and do take advantage of that. Well, it's just the way I am. Good question, Kitt!
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babblin5
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   Posted 2/24/2009 1:27 PM (GMT -7)   
I think being nice also includes being nice to yourself, and sometimes that means saying no. It also means... You all deserve a treat! yeah
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gilly-love
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   Posted 2/24/2009 3:47 PM (GMT -7)   
I am a nice person but not overly nice like i used to be. I dont sugar coat things so much anymore. Thanks gill.x

 

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Tirzah
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   Posted 2/24/2009 5:33 PM (GMT -7)   
I don't think I am very nice. I speak my mind & sometimes don't consider carefully enough how that might hurt the other person. Something to work on, I guess.

Mazfire
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   Posted 2/24/2009 5:39 PM (GMT -7)   

not all the time and not enough as id like to be. i have a temper, hold a mean grudge and can be a pain to live with. i know i have positive qualities, but i feel i should do more- its important for me to be in a job where im helping others and i do the best i can to always be fair and kind, but there are areas i could improve in. im realistic about that.

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melodee
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   Posted 2/25/2009 2:03 AM (GMT -7)   
When someone is too nice and never complains, I always think there is a hidden motive behind like they want special attention or treatment, or just simply wants to give people a good impression. I know this one girl who is really nice in front of others and always complains about them behind their back. I don't trust her anymore. This is why I try to be honest and do not go overboard being nice and trying to please others.

Celey
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   Posted 2/25/2009 10:09 AM (GMT -7)   
Sometimes, you can get special attention from being nice..... But that can be good or bad. It's like with everything else in life. Like.... If someone isn't nice, people are less likely to mess with them.... but then, it can be harder to make friends. If someone is nice, a person might be tempted to take advantage of them or even think of them as naive (Because they may have a tendency to put too much trust in people), but on the bright side, it can be easier to make friends, and thankfully, there are people who appreciate kindness.

Babblin made a good point, though... Being nice to yourself. In that aspect, it varies. I tend to have some inner split personality issues going on.. //@.@\\'..... A part of me will be really nice and understanding to myself..... Another part is overly critical and seems to take pleasure in making me feel bad.
I think I am being picked on by life, sometimes. But's that okay. Life and I are good buddies... I know life doesn't mean no harm. It just is the way it is. I can accept that.

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