Are you able to appreciate the "shades of gray" in life (e.g., that people can be both good and bad at the same time, that it is okay to be imperfect)
or are you a more "black and white" sort of person (e.g., a perfectionist, a victim, etc.) ?
I am with you on this one, as I can see the gray in many things but also some things are black and white to me.
In my life I need to see more gray and forgive myself instead of having black and white standards for myself. I always feel I must be perfect or I am doomed.
Yet I can see the gray in many areas and other people.
I am a work in progress.Kitt
I know I could learn to be a bit more flexible.
Anxiety 2007; IBS 2004; Chronic Hives 2002. Medications: Allegra, Zantac, Xanax, Darvocet.
Yes it makes perfect sense. I am glad you took the time to think through the question. IMHO, the world is black and whie and gray all over ........... LOL
Hope your doing well.