Prayers Have Been Answered.........Cait Did It........On Her Own

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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/17/2009 1:54 PM (GMT -7)   
.....Nothing could have made this sad day happier for me than to have Cait come and tell me she had to talk to me
She had been listening when I was telling her she could do better and that once a guy is controlling or woman that is usually the life pattern
Anyhoo
SHE kicked him to the curb
I am almost w/o hearing and Howie is not home yet I heard this awful yelling
it was from outside Cait was being called every name in the book and accused of cheating on him ect
She goes to school brings home 100's .....honor student and works each night
She has to work all March break
She told him he did not live up to his promises of Anger management educaton and employment and SHE WILL NOT live with that
She has dreams and goals
I am SO happy and so proud I am in tears
She knows it made me relieved ,,,,,,,,,
I wont rub it in and I will support her all the way ........
BUT not again with Jesse
 
Thanks for letting me vent all
As most know Cait is my World..........
Love
Big sis
Sis
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Post Edited (Howlyncat) : 3/17/2009 3:35:48 PM (GMT-6)


Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/17/2009 1:56 PM (GMT -7)   
Lil sis
Nanners
it will too work out with your children...........
Love
Big sis
Luvs
Sis
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Nanners
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   Posted 3/17/2009 2:01 PM (GMT -7)   
See Lyn I told you your smart girl would open her eyes and see what a dope she was dating. Lets just keep praying that her eyes stay open. I am very happy for you.

As for my girls, I give!! Its time for them to grow up and be responsible for their own choices. I can't let them interfere with my happiness, just because they can't get their cr@p together. So no worries for me, I am in a good place now. I know my grandbabies are safe with their Daddy, and have to leave them in God's hands and pray one day I will see them again.

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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/17/2009 2:08 PM (GMT -7)   
I am so glad you are keeping self in a good place sis

YES she will stay away this time
What a lil scrapper she is ......lol
My MOUTH for sure
ROFLMBO
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Aries8
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   Posted 3/17/2009 2:29 PM (GMT -7)   
Thank God Cait got out before she wasted many years. It takes a brave person to walk away from a terrible relationship. Kudos to her and I will pray for Cait.....
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/17/2009 2:34 PM (GMT -7)   
Thanks Aries
I do appreciate all the luv and the prayers
'They do work .........

Luvs
God Bless
LYN
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                                     LYN


Raniah
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   Posted 3/17/2009 3:25 PM (GMT -7)   
Lyn, you must be SO relieved, happy, proud......I am all of those for you and Cait.  Very, very good news.  It is a real victory for both of you!  

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   Posted 3/17/2009 4:28 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Lyn,

Your daughter sounds like a smart girl. I am glad that she had it in her to walk away from this toxic relationship. Once a man gets violent in any way, it seems they continue. So I am so happy that she kicked him to the curb.

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melbe
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   Posted 3/17/2009 5:53 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Lyn, I'm really happy for you and cait!  Sounds like she finally took out the trash.  smilewinkgrin

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   Posted 3/17/2009 9:24 PM (GMT -7)   
Congrats my Canadian Sis :) That is wonderful news, and hopefully you will start feeling a bit better with your anxiety now!

Take care and keep your girl close to you. . . Your a wonderful mother!
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   Posted 3/18/2009 10:35 AM (GMT -7)   
That is such wonderful news.  I am sure your anxiety level went down a lot.  Cait sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders and sounds like she was raised with a lot of respect for herself and to stand up for herself.  Kudos to you for being such a great Mom.

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   Posted 3/18/2009 11:41 AM (GMT -7)   
Good for her, and GOOD FOR YOU!

You are obviously a wonderful, caring person, and it is an honor to call you friend...

As far as kids go, I could tell you stories about my kids that would curl your hair... but those are long since passed, and everything has worked out.

Thank you for being a wonderful mother to your daughter!

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   Posted 3/18/2009 3:47 PM (GMT -7)   

Smart young woman you are raising Big Sis, like Mother, like daughter.

She has a good head on her shoulders and she will always choose the right path.  I am very relieved for both you and Cait.  Now I would really like you to get a good nights sleep tonight.

You are on my mind and in my heart,

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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/18/2009 3:51 PM (GMT -7)   
Thanks to you all
I am SO proud of her
Another fight on front porch this am BUT Howie was home and it was soon stopped
Ring was given back to Cait and she is GLAD and relieved it is over as she told me
She knows it is all for the best'
Leopards do NOT change their spots

Her bio dad was the same jealous and controlling and she knows what that put me n her thru
I finally left and and got MY GUTS back
Yehawwwwwwwwww

Luvs to all
Lyn
N Thanks
Love
Big sis
Luvs
S.I.S. 
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   Posted 3/18/2009 3:53 PM (GMT -7)   
This is a great post :) I'm happy for the both of you! Nothing like some good news.
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/19/2009 1:17 PM (GMT -7)   
Thanks Bro
I am having a restraining order placed on him'I DO not trust him at all and I will NOT let her be hurt mentally nor physically anymore
I am still her mom ya know


Luvs
Sis
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/19/2009 1:20 PM (GMT -7)   
LIL sis
I do hope I can sleep as well
Having issues with that as you know
Come here anytime
You know you are welcome
Love
Big sis


Babblin
Thanks so much
I am honored to be a friend of yours as well
Luvs
LYN
Luvs
LYN
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               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/23/2009 8:21 AM (GMT -7)   
Well.......
Spring Break was the worst ever IMHO

YES Cait broke up with Jesse before but in the week he came here with veiled threats to get his stuff and demanded the ring or he would call police
She was scared gave it to him....
He continually called her cell at her job ( on vibrate) til we got # changed

Now Lil sis you know when Cait had the G pointed at her in grade school well now Jesse is hanging with him
Cait is terrified...I have told you all of this already more indepth ....
Anyways I went to the school as Cait and I had one huge fight yesterday when I called you as you know and she left..........
She did come back but we have not spoken and she knew I could not hear her down here so she took off to go on her own ......

There is now the teachers and all watching out for her and the police will be putting a straing order on him and I am going to make sure she is safe
That is a fear I have and you know this
She is already on meds why does he continually have to do this to her
N why is it effecting us so bad
I have an idea
I am angry so angry that I could not take the time to help out you n others ...think of Mom or Rick......help Cait .......
All I was doing was being angry at everything and emotionally defunct.........

Had Howies G/K's here love em but they were are hyper like craz climbimg all over me and I was so swollen from the pain from fibro I was in tears.......Nothing seemed to helped and lack of sleep made it all worse......
Now I am rambling...house was a total disaster.........OH VEY...........ROFLMBO i wish lol
............

KK I am glad all is going to be taken care of with Cait
I did say I am sorry for yelling and so did she and that we loved each other
They dont get that I am not trying to yell all the time
I cannot hear so voice is louder than I realize
Toby would no doubt be the same ...........at times Eh.

NO calls from family other than my bio sis and you on mom's anni day and Ricks's
That shows me who cares for me
ya know............Love
Big sis

I see the thread and I cry as I see the family I have here care more for me than my blood..........
It cuts deep it truly does and walls start going back up
You know the way it is we are 2 of a kind.........Love....Big sis

To all of you my family...
Thank you for being here for me and for my Cait............Luvs....LYN

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Post Edited (Howlyncat) : 3/23/2009 2:02:57 PM (GMT-6)


Celey
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   Posted 3/23/2009 12:44 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm sorry to hear about the troubles going on between your daughter and her ex... *Hugs* I hope it all gets worked out soon...

And I understand where you're coming from... on a different level.... I've known a few people who have hearing problems (my brother being one of them, in fact), so I know what it's like to be on the receiving end of the yelling... It looks like it is very frustrating for someone who can hardly hear themselves speak... Some people learn how to handle being yelled at, but some don't... I'm glad apologies were made, though... :)... And I hope you two will be able to make progress in understanding each other better....
I think I am being picked on by life, sometimes. But's that okay. Life and I are good buddies... I know life doesn't mean no harm. It just is the way it is. I can accept that.


Howlyncat
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   Posted 3/23/2009 1:04 PM (GMT -7)   
Thanks sweet Celey
I am sure we will do our best we always have been so close and as I ahve said I am so proud of her
She made a wise decision IMHO
BUT I had to let her make that one for herself hard as it was...........

Luvs
LYN
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               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN

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