Hey, there, alwayslove!
You have got a lot on your plate right now.
Are you having followups with your doctor after your surgery? Might be a good time to bring up your concerns about
the headaches. Anxiety is definitely a roller coaster, so I know that your better-worse-better-worse yo-yoing is pretty common for a lot of us.
Regarding the ex-boyfriend, you could perhaps pass along through a friend that you *really* don't want to see him at this busy time of the semester, or you could plan to steel yourself up for saying it in person, but then do leave and don't stay to chat. It seems rude, I know, but you've got other priorities that you're clear about
, and a heart-to-heart doesn't sound like it fits in prodcutively for you right now.
Good luck to you!
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DX: Anxiety, Depression, LPR (acid reflux)
Meds: Paxil, Nexium, Zantac