.Better or Worse.........Sickness and In Health????????

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Howlyncat
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   Posted 5/3/2009 12:46 PM (GMT -7)   
.......HOwie walked out on me 2 nights ago / 3 days ago
 
.........I asked himWHY
His reply was he could no longer handle how sick I am
The hearing got to him after all the rest I guess
Cait is broken hearted as am I ...........
He is the ONLY Father she has known and it is ripping her apart..............
 
I said he would be numero 3 and I was so right
he had this set up 3 weeks ago according to his Bio daughter........
 
NOT asking for pity here just needed to vent
I vave been crying n in bed since........... cry
Life is not what it seems anymore but I will bounce back I will for sure..............
 
Take care all and know I care...........LYN
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Fibro & Other DD

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                                     LYN


Georgie Girl
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   Posted 5/3/2009 5:35 PM (GMT -7)   
Aw, so sorry to hear about this Lyn. My husband is fairly supportive of my problems but I often wonder if he ever feels fed up. My thoughts go out to you.

Raniah
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   Posted 5/3/2009 7:48 PM (GMT -7)   
Dear, sweet Lyn:

My heart goes out to you, my friend. I am so sorry for this additional suffering, on top of all that you are dealing with. I never understand why people leave during the hardest times.....it is something I have struggled with over the years, and I can't fathom it. I thank God that you and Cait have each other in this difficult time. I will pray for you, and for God to give you comfort in your grief. (((((hugs)))))

Much love you to, in all of your struggles. I am here for you, for whatever I can do to help you.
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FamilyGuy
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   Posted 5/3/2009 7:58 PM (GMT -7)   
((((((((Lyn)))))))) Your title is correct. However frustrated we get with our significant others and they with us, it is a partnership. I hope you can find some peace and Howie comes to his senses. Thoughts and prayers are with you, Cait, and Howie.

Your friend,
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Allestaria
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   Posted 5/3/2009 9:43 PM (GMT -7)   
(((((HUGS))))))

You sound like you can use a giant hug.
I have to give you some major kudos girl. You are one world of a strong woman. And i admire you for it. I understand (mostly) how this can effect you. When my first husband left me I fell apart. But I had great friends that picked me up! And you have so many friends here for you!

Need more shoulders to cry on? Remember we all have 2 and I am more then willing to give you both and even a hankie and dry your eyes.
Things will get better in time. Even though we are impatient. Time heals.

Hibee
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   Posted 5/4/2009 6:05 AM (GMT -7)   
Lyn

So sorry to hear your news you are a strong person Lyn and you will get through and we are here to support you all the way my friend.

Ben

Nanners
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   Posted 5/4/2009 6:16 AM (GMT -7)   
(((LYN))) So sorry to hear you have another trial in life thrown at you. Please know you can come here and vent or cry or whatever you need to do anytime. We are always here for you.

Hugs
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Been living with Crohn's Disease for 33 years. Currently on Asacol, Prilosec, Estrace, Prinivil, Diltiazem, Percoset prn for pain, Zofran, Phenergan, Probiotics, and Calcium and Xanax as needed. Resections in 2002 and 2005. Also diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and Osteoarthritis and Anxiety. Currently my Crohns is in remission.
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stkitt
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   Posted 5/4/2009 6:35 AM (GMT -7)   

Dear Lyn,

I am so sorry this has happened with Howie again and I hope you and Cait will be OK. I know how difficult this is for you and how unfair.

I wish you peace and please remember we are all here to support you always.

Kitt


 

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percycat
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   Posted 5/5/2009 7:02 AM (GMT -7)   
Dear Lyn,

I'm sad (and angry) at Howie for leaving you this way. It is a partnership and commitment, and that's such a shame that he is not able to carry on. He seems to have been struggling with this for some time, and I'm sorry that his choice was to leave.

You ARE a strong woman, and so is Cait, and you two will get through this and all the other challenges that have come along. We are here for you, with love and support, and I hope you'll lean on us as much as you need to. You are going through some pretty extreme changes right now, and it's bound to be hard and sad, so accept the gifts of love and support that so many are offering you.

I'm sending many positive thoughts and wishes your way (and for Cait too). Hang on; we won't let go!

Love,
percycat

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Howlyncat
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   Posted 5/5/2009 10:06 AM (GMT -7)   
cry  you all have me in tears
I have NOT been here to support so many of you YET once again you are rallying around me and supporting me
 
I gave Howie the boot a couple of times ( thinking affairs)
YET I cannot lie and say this is not ripping me n Cait apart
 
YES Kitt I was right he is with Pam/Whammy and it has to have been for awhile now........
 
Packed all his stuff including all the things cait had gotten him thru the yrs as I did as well ...........
 
IT is time to move on
 
Cait goes to the Uni in Kingston for a week to check out how she likes the UNI life lol
Only thing is she leaves on Mother's day and will be gone til following wknd
 
I will never stop her from her educaton dreams / goals she is too smart and will go far...... turn
 
LOL must be she gets it from me EH all smilewinkgrin
 
AGAIN thanks so much for all your support and caring
IT only mkes me stronger and ready to face another day
 
LUVS
.....................LYN 
 
 
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

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                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........co Moderator Crohns
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or You Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


getting by
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   Posted 5/5/2009 9:04 PM (GMT -7)   
Lyn,

I just read this thread, and want to say how sorry I am. But as was stated above, you are a strong woman and you will get through this. We are all here for you. Your daughter is a strong woman too and she will continue to move on as you will.

Keep your chin up and take it one day at a time. Best wishes to you sweetie.

Hugs, Karen
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Aries8
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   Posted 5/5/2009 11:53 PM (GMT -7)   
Lyn, this too shall pass. I know completely how you are feeling. I've been there and I think it's probably the worst feeling a person can have. This door closing will inevitably lead to a window opening with something new and exciting happening in your life. You've been through so much, sweetie. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 5/6/2009 1:32 AM (GMT -7)   
.......Thanks so much again to all of you
YES I am strong
I am woman
"Hear me ROAR"

Luvs
LYN n Cait
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

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                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
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                            Keep The Fight Going..Or You Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


Green Grove
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   Posted 5/6/2009 3:06 PM (GMT -7)   
So sorry that all this is happening to you. I wanted to jump on here and show some support while I have a few minutes of internet and time. You take care and know you are in my prayers.

The best of luck to you and Cait!

Your Bro Sam
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Julie1014
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   Posted 5/6/2009 4:03 PM (GMT -7)   
(((Lyn))) I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. I know all too well how you feel. It will be exactly 3 years tomorrow that my ex-husband left me. I was married for 13 years. He said he couldn't deal with someone who was sick all of the time. He left me when I was most ill. Fast forward to today..... I'm still single, but I am stronger than I have ever been. Yes, I have my moments, but like you said, I am woman, hear me roar!!! I am sending big hugs and prayers your way. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. Blessings, Julie
Diagnosed with Crohn's March 2006, Fibromyalgia Nov. 2008, Anxiety Disorder since childhood
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Howlyncat
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   Posted 5/7/2009 5:29 PM (GMT -7)   
BRO.......Thanks for your support
Getting my head around it more each day I am........Luvs.......Sis ..........

Julie
I am so sorry that you know the pain as well
Thanks for your caring and support smilewinkgrin

LYN

** Just fixing typonese LOL**


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                            Keep The Fight Going..Or You Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN

Post Edited (Howlyncat) : 5/9/2009 7:42:54 AM (GMT-6)


machelle
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   Posted 5/7/2009 6:59 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm sorry lyn, for whats happening to you, you deserve to have someone who whats to be there and take care of you, i hope everything works out for the best of both of you and cait , take care sweetie.

Post Edited (machelle) : 5/7/2009 8:03:52 PM (GMT-6)


Howlyncat
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   Posted 5/8/2009 9:52 AM (GMT -7)   
.....Thanks so much Machelle
.....I am waking to a new but different attitude daily

I WILL overcome this
I hope he is Happy
I know I sure intend to be ...........Luvs.........LYN
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

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                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........co Moderator Crohns
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or You Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


alwaysanxious
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   Posted 5/8/2009 10:48 AM (GMT -7)   
 I  was not going to click on this thread ,but, i am glad i did ,I have often wanted to tell you what a wonderful and caring person you are , you are the kind of person i would like to know in person ,you help so many and you are always upbeat ,so sorry you are and cait are going through this , people tell me i am strong ,but strong people hurt to probably more than anyone knows,.love and prayers are with you

Howlyncat
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   Posted 5/8/2009 10:56 AM (GMT -7)   
Thanks so much for your support

It really does make me stronger to have it all ya know...........

Luvs............LYN
 DX: Crohns,Pyoderma Gangrenosum,Anxiety/Panic,
Fibro & Other DD

Donate at  www.healingwell.com
 
                               Moderator@Alzheimer's..
              CO Moderator @ Anxiety and Panic........co Moderator Crohns
                            Keep The Fight Going..Or You Will Lose
               Look For The GOOD, Even At Your Lowest
  We Have Anxiety and Panic...................Anxiety and Panic DO NOT Have us         
   
                                     LYN


aoccc
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   Posted 5/8/2009 12:53 PM (GMT -7)   
Had basically the same thing happen to me years ago..you will be amazed to how many new things that will open up in your life..eventually you will be glad it happened :)
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stkitt
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   Posted 5/8/2009 3:48 PM (GMT -7)   

Lyn,

I am thinking of you and Cait. I understand the pain of being abandoned and I hope you keep getting stronger each day.  You will always have Cait.

"When you fall in a river, you're no longer a fisherman; you're a swimmer." - Gene Hill

Kitt

nellebutter
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   Posted 5/8/2009 4:02 PM (GMT -7)   
Lyn,
I am sorry you are going through this. I know I haven't been a member for long but so far I can see that you are a good person and you definetly don't deserve to go through this. I hate to hear about situations like this it really upsets me what's the point of vows if someone does a thing like this? I know you will get through this and I'm sending many hugs your way. Feel better.

Nelle
This too shall pass...


percycat
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   Posted 5/8/2009 7:17 PM (GMT -7)   
Lyn,

I'm hoping that each day gives you new strength and understanding for coping with the pain and sense of betrayal you must feel. You and Cait deserve so much better than this, and it will come.

Love,
percycat

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Junebug05
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   Posted 5/8/2009 7:52 PM (GMT -7)   
Lyn,
 
I'm just so sorry that this is happening to you and Cait.  You are such an amazing person and noboby deserves to be hurt this way.  I will keep you and Cait in my prayers.  I know you are strong and will get through this, but don't forget to lean on all of us during those not so strong moments.  Love to you!
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