Co-Moderator, Anxiety and Panic Forum
DX: Anxiety, Depression, LPR (acid reflux)
Meds: Paxil, Nexium, Zantac
I am sorry but I know exactly how you feel. My hubby does much of the same kind of behavior. He has Crohn's and I know he has anxiety but he will not admit it so I am always the one he takes out his vents on.
He is not good at sitting down and talking through things either as he just "doesn't want to talk about it"
He will say things and I easliy let his words hurt me so I have been really trying to just let it go and not start feeling like it is me he is angry at when I know he does love me.
I also try not to fire back at him out of feeling hurt by his comments. I cry easily when I am upset and he may make comments like "Now what?" So I often just go off by myself and let out the tears and then give myself a talking to and keep on moving.
I know how hard this is to live with anxiety and I have the dang depression too................so please know you are not alone.
Gentle Hugs to you