I have reread some of your posts and I feel like you need to take the reins in deciding what is best for you and tell your husband to please back off. If you feel you need to be hospitalized please do see your physician and discuss this with him.
People generally cannot just make a decision to be hospitalized and call up and reserve a bed. You must have a physician's medical screening exam and the physician will decided if your condition warrants your being hospitalized.
Something is not clicking into place here. Who is in charge of your medical care.............surely not your husband?
I wish you peace,
Good Morning April,
You have received some very caring posts in this thread. Hoping you will respond to us so we know how you are doing.