I'm so sorry hun this is happeneing. Just remember to tell him you'll didn't divorce him and both you and his dad still love him dearly. My parents divorced when I was 11 and I didn't have a relationship with my dad because he was a very violent man. Just don't put him in the middle or use him for a tool...tell him it's ok to love you both and you and dad need to settel this between yourselfs. Good luck hun and come talk to us a often as you want.
thank you for all your advice and yes i know how it is i come from a divorced family also. my parents were divorced when i was 9 so i know what my son is going through i just wish i could make this easier for him. tomorrow morning i go in for my biopsy i am really scared i just don't want it to be something serious. 8 years ago i had one done and nothing was cancerous just had to have a leep procedure done, but this time it feels different i have more pain than i did back then. i'm just scared i guess, for one the biopsy hurts and two i'm scared of the results! yesterday my doctor increased my lexapro to 20mg a day and my ativan 1mg 4xday until i get used to the new dose. does anyone know if you have many side effects to the new dose and how long it might last? i just kinda feel jittery in the mornings and a little throughout the day. yesterday was an extremely bad day for me i just cried all day and my pulse was up just didn't feel right so that is why my doctor decided it was time to increase the meds. anyone else have that happen? i felt so good for awhile and then the last few days could tell something was happening cuz i just didn't feel like myself, didn't have the energy or ambition to do anything felt like i was slipping backwards.
Honey you are in my prayers. We will be here for you so please let us know how it goes hun.