Hi Welcome to the site. I'm sure you'll get loads of advise here. I agree with Twiggygal. I think you need to have more communitcation about how you feel, she needs to know she is smothering you and causing you anxiety, otherwise she can't change what she dosen't know. I think you both need to have time to yourselves, before you become too co-dependant with each other. I wish you luck and it's nice to meet you.