Yes Kissie not everyone is saveable that's just the way of life you can try and try but with out the help of her Mothers support and having to hide it that way is not your doing some ppl are to proud and will not help the ones in need even family's just don't want to let out the family's problems even at the cost of a loved one.
The trouble with us lot that get depression and/or anxiety is that we Really care about others and because we have been thru sooo much ourselves we think we can save the world sometimes..I know this from experience lol..trust me on this one! The thing is that everyone has a life path to follow..and sometimes a helper can step into our lives and we don't even realise, or the timing is not right, or we simply choose to ignore the help and move on anyhow (sigh)..which is frustrating for the person wanting to help because we can see ourselves in that person and we know we Can help! You have given great advice to this girl - that's all you can do - and is a lot more than many of us get when we are in trouble eh?
Congratulate yourself on your extraordinary efforts to help time to move on and look after yourself..relax and let go!
Post Edited (Howlyncat) : 1/25/2007 10:30:40 AM (GMT-7)
Honey I know how hard you have tried with this girl. I have been there and I ended up damaging all the hard work I had done to make me better. It is so easy to fall into some of theses peoples lives because we care so much but please remember you and your health comes first. We can't save the world but we can save ourself. I applawed you on your efforts hun so give yourself a pat on the back and wrap your arms around yourself and squeez tight for a comforting hug.