Hey everyone, I am really upset and need some advice. I have been with my b/f for 2 years and we have 1yr old baby. We have been having some problems recently with arguing and its been happening at least once a week. It always seems too be over the stupidist things, but things that matter! We both have a myspace account and about
a month ago I found this message that he mailed to this girl telling her how sexy she is. Well I confront him about
it and he lies to my face, telling me that a friend of his did it! No, it was him and I know that for sure, he finally admitted it. Then recently I find all these pictures and stuff he was pulling up. Is it wrong for me to be hurt and off over this??? Then, sometimes he will drive my car somewhere, well he smokes and I dont. So I tell him if you are going to drive my car, dont smoke in it! I have told him that like 50 times! Well Im looking out the window when he pulls in and guess what? He gets out of my car with a cig. in his hand. Im so off! He cant even respect me enough to not smoke in my car???? So of course we get into a big fight about
it because Im really mad at this point! Well me and him have a major problem with communication. He wont talk!!! Its like he takes his emotions out with anger and is mean, he says such mean things to me and we both end up leaving! I stayed at my moms last night. I mentioned us going to counsling and he laughed at me! This wouldnt be so hard if we didnt have a baby. He says he loves me, but how can you say such mean things to a person you love???? Im 22 and hes 28 and I just keep thinkin Im so young I dont deserve to be upset every single day!! I am really depressed and dont know what too do! Does anyone have any advice for me???