whilst obviously there is cause for concern we can worry to much and too often about things, if she stopped the pain meds would you find something else to worry about?
zoloft sometimes never works, but needs to be tried for about 6 weeks to see wheher it will work for you
if the pain is psychological maybe the gf should see the shrink also
sometimes fake placebo pain meds are used for people like her, they cant tell the difference
Good afternoon. Yes I have discussed this with her and most times it turns into an argument. There really is no end in sight either because she has chronic conditions and she states she will always be on some kind of pain meds. Her pain is both physical and phycological. She is already seeing a shrink too. Ive been on zoloft for about 6 months now.
And you are right Harry - I would find something else to worry about. Say she wasnt on pain meds anymore - I would be worried that she would go back to heavy drinking like she used to do or go back on pain meds again. I do know that if pain meds and alcohol were never in the picture and never a probelm for her from the beginning, I think I wouldnt worry then about our relationship. I dont worry whatsoever about her being unfaithful with another person and we rarely have any argumetns about money because we are both savers. So honestly I can say that if meds and booze were never in the picture, I would have no worries abot the relationship.
You sound like a very loveing and careing person and you do have every right to be worried. Maybe next time she goes to see her dr you can go with her and talk to him/her with her. I wish you both the best.