Welcome to HW - there are so many kind and understanding people her I am sure you will find comfort amongst us.
Sounds like you are all stressed out..time to relax a little, put your feet up and generally chill...even busy mums have gotta take a little time out for themselves - easier said than done I know
You say that you have had the muscle twitching thingy for a few months now..does this only happens when you get into bed? If so I understand because it happens to me sometimes when I have had a stressful day and am trying to wind down..very disturbing, but nothing to worry about :)
When was the last time you went for a checkup with your doc? Could be a plan..and would probably put your mind at ease..from here you will be able to take action, and be able to work towards feeling like your old self again.
Take good care.
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