am glad you did well but I think we should all stand up to our agoraphobia and confront it, but dont tense your muscles, grit your teeth and fight back
much better to use CBT coping skills against it and float thru it
you would have been distracted from your agoraphobia by what had happened so something like this may not be as easy again
a concealed tape recorder would have been useful to record the ex and give it to your lawyer
also the agoraphobia may be held against you re custody so a special effort with valium and CBT will help
You go girlfriend…………..I am proud of you too. You can’t keep a good woman down.
I had an ex many years ago and there were times when he tried to push me over the edge but I refused to let what he said and did make me feel guilty.
You are definitely a winner today and feel good about it. I don’t believe that many of us carry around tape recorders in anticipation of needing one .
Keep on doing what your doing and we are here for you.
Big Hugs !