Help please !!! about the OCD

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Reina
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   Posted 11/14/2007 9:20 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi, i need some help please.......... confused
 
My boyfriend have OCD and his behaviours with me are getting worse and often, like change of character, verbally agressive, change of personality, very confusing...and start screaming and being rude with me without a reason..... is getting me very nervious I dont know what to do or to think anymore....... im getting very nervious with his character and Im afraid that one day he can became violent.........
 
I love him with all my heart and Im very good and nice with him  , but im extremelly worry about this cause is getting often the arguments he just change without a reason.......im getting sick myself cause im nervious about this, im suffering because this and is like the OCd is stronger than him....... when he is ok is a wonderful man but when he got this days is like another kind of person that I dont know anymore.........
 
What he can do to get better ?? How he can fight this??? it is going to get worse and worse with time ???
 
Please help !!!
 
Thanks a lot
 
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stkitt
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   Posted 11/14/2007 9:32 PM (GMT -7)   

Reina,

I would strongly suggest that your boyfriend seek medical help for his OCD problems.  If you feel you are in danger you should remove yourself from the situation until your b/f can get help and is able to control his anger issues.

You have to take care of you and if that means you see your own physician for your anxiety then please do that. Keep posting here as you will find many members that are supportive and caring.

Hugs to you

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Reina
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   Posted 11/16/2007 6:33 AM (GMT -7)   
Thank you so much stkitt for you reply I really appreciate, I already told him that and i want him to take his time and to go to see the Dr. and take the pills, he is afraid to take the pills again cause he loose straingh all over his body, but at this point i think is better is he take it cause im extremelly worry, cause the change of his character is getting worse and often is like 2 weeks ok and 1 week bad......he has obsesions with stuff and start telling things without a reason I cry a lot cause of that and Im getting very affected by this situation cause I im deeply in love, but at this point I suffering and Im confused cause he can get worse and get violent........The thing is that this is my second boyfriend with this kind of problems, Im really concenr
 
What else do yo think ?? I really appreciate your help and others members.
 
Thanks !!! confused

Reina
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   Posted 11/16/2007 5:48 PM (GMT -7)   

Howlyncat
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   Posted 11/17/2007 7:34 AM (GMT -7)   
What exactly are his OCD traits and I am severe OCD but
Never have I been abusive in any way so I just was wondering what would all his traits be and meds that make him weak are what??

IMHO.......He needs help and you need to let him find that help get better or at least on the road to recovery and find you and some happiness for you ..HE has to want it for him first and foremost

This is not sounding rigth to me you are hurting bad for him I understand BUT does he see what Hades he is putting you thru ??

This is the second type of B/F with the same issues or problems you posted .........why are you letting yourself be treated like this

You so deserve so much more sweetie you really do .....Take it from an 53 yr old that has had her share of life problems BUT I will not let myself be abused any more nor should you

Please keep coming here and keep self safe and try to find some kind of life for you with Happiness.....

Take care you ..........Keep us posted plz........LYN
I will check in and see if you have posted later......been roughing it myself .......

You have ppl here that do care and understand ..

LYN
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stkitt
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   Posted 11/17/2007 9:54 AM (GMT -7)   

Hey Reina

I am right here.

I agree with Lyn, a bit more info re his meds etc may help us understand his thinking.  I am wondering if perhaps he has more than OCD going on here. He really needs to see his physician and he must choose to go for his sake.  Please remember you cannot change him or make him do anything.  He has to want to get better.

I get the impression that you are  a very sensitive and caring person, so when your  around someone that is hurting, or feeling some strong emotions, you  tend to become empathetic with them. If your boyfriend is being abusive You have every right to be afraid and you should let him know that you are afraid.   I also feel  you may need to go to counseling as well to discuss these problems.

I know you feel love for this man but please, never think love is  an excuse for anyone to be abusive.

Keep us posted and know we care.

Gentle Hugs

Kitt


 
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   Posted 11/19/2007 8:39 AM (GMT -7)   
I am HOPING you do come back and continue to post and read what has been written to you in response

When ppl post that they are being abused it does worry us and have us waiting for a reply as well ...as we do care and become more concerned with no re postings

Has B/F been dx with any type of OCD and what meds does he take

How are you holding up to all of this.........PLZ let us know

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