|Hi there everyone.
my name is valerie. i do not have cf but my "boyfriend" does, he was born with it and will be 22 next week. We are everything a couple are, but he wont fully commit to me, as in we are dont have the title boyfriend and girlfriend. It really bothers me cause weve been going out for two years this month. i love him to death and he loves me too. I know he fears me having to deal with im and his CF, but i dont see it as dealing with it. I accept it. I help him with everything and im always there for him 100%. He would at first push me away from him. Hes just so very private about everything. He said to me once that the next girl with gets with, is going to be the girl that he will marry. In other words he doesnt want to waste time. I wish he would not see it like that, and let things fall into place instead of tryin to control it. Anyways to get to my question, i wanted to know if anyone with CF feels that same way about pushing people away to not hurt them or fully allowing them "in".