Catz, very tardy but let me give you a really big welcome to HW. I am glad that you are fitting is so well here with all us. I hope that the humira kicks in really quickly so you can go off the pred. Pretty nasty stuff.
It is always so much nicer when we have spouses/family that we can lean on when we are feeling our worst. Your hubby sounds like a wonderful man. 2 sucessful kids later, it looks like you two did a great job raising your kids while health issues were plaguing you. You have a lot to be proud of.
Keep up posting. And as I said, welcome.
Worry not for tomorrow, for tomorrow will take care of itself.
Remember healing comes one step at a time, sometimes it seems that its one forward and 2 back but ultimately, always in a forward direction!!!