RA and driving

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   Posted 1/6/2017 2:10 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi everyone,
I actually belong to one of the other forums (for my UC), however my mum was diagnosed a year ago with RA and I wanted your advice/input. She is currently on methotrexate, and steroids for periodic flares, however she still suffers quite a bit at times. My concern is that my mum is quite a depressed and defeatist type of person anyway and has been all of her life and now I'm worried that she's just going to sit in a chair all day and wait out the rest of her life. I've only just found out that she's completely given up driving because she can't do it anymore with the RA, which concerns me as while she relies on my dad to get her everywhere, grocery shopping etc, he is 70 and so not a young man himself. He's just recently injured his back and had to drive himself in agony to the doctor because she won't drive anymore. I don't want to sound heartless, I know how tough having a debilitating medical condition can be, and I also understand the depression that can come along with it, I'm just concerned. So I wanted to get everyone's feedback on everyone's experience with driving, whether it's still possible, and if not, whether there are any potential vehicle modifications that can potentially help?

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   Posted 1/6/2017 10:06 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm about a year into learning I have RA. I do have occasional hand cramps, wrist pains, elbow pains, and achy shoulders when I drive. It depends on the distance and the weather.
I wear compression gloves to help With the hands and wrists issues while driving.

There is several driver's services out there. In my area there's Masters Care, A Caring Man with a Van, etc....
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   Posted 1/7/2017 1:04 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi guys,
Thanks for the responses, that at least gives me some insight. She has just flat out said that she can't drive, and refused to do so even to the local shops when my dad had injured his back so he had to do it. I didn't want to come across as unfeeling as I have my own needs that people often don't understand, but I do feel there is a psychological component and I don't want her to become a literal prisoner of this illness. I will look at the thread you suggested, and also the driving services. I just have to be careful in how I raise it as I sense it will be met with resistance.
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   Posted 1/11/2017 5:46 PM (GMT -7)   
Im 47 and I didn't drive for about a year and a half recently because I was close to passing out at times due to RA meds, fatigue and pain. Riding in a car is a painful experience for me no matter what now so I can understand where your mom is coming from. I get dizzy now just riding in a car going over about 20 MPH some days. Im disabled, on disabilty and spend most of my time at home as well now.

Between the pain and incredible amounts of fatigue its really really hard to do things anymore. You can't and shouldn't push your mom to do anything she isn't comfortable with. She knows her body and what she is able to do. Think about it this way; imagine the anxiety it will cause her to have her loved one telling her that she should do this or that when she probably would LOVE to do it but just doesn't have it in her anymore.

I hope that she feels better and that she is able to get back in the swing of things soon.

Blessings -Don
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