Ya know...i never should have answered my telephone. for all of you who have been here a long while, my father (if one can call him that) is a real ****! long story short, he doesn't care about or what happens to his daughter...cut me from my insurance....helps with nothing (and is quite wealthy).....and just really is a terrible person. (neglectful/abusive/alcoholic/). been out of the picture since a teenager, but we talk occasionally.
in the car going up to my honey's for the weekend...actually HAPPY and excited for once & feeling decent.
my father calls. not much of a conversation."Happy Birthday"....thanks, blah blah,blah.
now...he knows i am not working and am sick (to what extent does he fathom or comprehend i don't know).
he actually had the nerve to insult me on my birthday.
in quote: "Oh so how have you been doing?"
...."not so good, it's really hard, in a lot of pain, and the Crohns has been really bad and i'm going in for a few tests next week, and in bed most of the time..."
"So what are you doing with your weeks?"
.....and i'm like WTF? i'm not on vacation here! i'm friggin' sick all da** day!...
"Well I figured since you're not working and not doing anything and just bumming around all the time you should come work down at the office from 9 to 3 a few days a week."
just bumming around? my gut dropped to my feet when i heard that. i cried for 2 days. it was s o hurtful and insulting and made me feel like a piece of ****. i was so upset.
really has no clue! i can hardly shower and dress myself, am on the toilet all day, and exhausted from it...and in tremendous pain on top.
i'm trained for a freaking PROFESSION! i have a degree!!!! if i COULD WORK i sure as H** wouldn't be there!
but then again...after i was hospitalized a few times for complications from all this...his replies were : to take vitamins and make yourself better.
my boyfriend was fit to be tied.
i don't think i wil ever answer a call from him again.
how can someone do that? i should have known better, nothing ever positive comes from speaking with him..only insult & makes you feel bad about yourself.
so i figured i would share this. i'm sure someone out there might stumble upon this who might just be going through the same thing. guess i finally learned, just cut them out of your life.
this is a person who's never been ill...is selfish....ignorant....and spends most time cruising around the world on expensive vacations and cruises.
and his daughter is on foodstamps and had to get Medicaid? i wonder what he tells people that ask about me?
and that's that.
thanks for listening.
i have a wonderful mate who stuck by me the whole time, and if i had the nerve i would have gave that A** the ripe words that my boyfriend had to say.
what a shame.
Active, Severe RA. Crohns Disease. Chiari Malformation & Right Brain venous anomoly. AS. Emphysema. Rheumatic Lung. MVP and Tricuspid prolapse. Had Lymes disease for 10 years.
Meds: Humira 40mg every 4 days; pred; Pentasa; Imuran; dilaudid; diazepam; Avinza 30mg; MiraLax & too many others.