Oh CaMama and Boo,
Hope you both can feel the hugs I'm sending your way...wish there was something, anything, I could say or do to help......but I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes reading your posts. It just plain stinks when the people we SHOULD be able to count on the most are the ones who seem to be the ones who hurt us the worst. Where on earth is left for you to go to for support and comfort?No "soft place to fall" like the song says......cuts straight to my heart for both of you.
Scares me, too, in a way. My hubby seems to be at his best in a crisis, and so far he has been wonderful through this, but sure haven't had this very long, and I'm sure it will grow old quickly. So, I'm wondering if what you are dealing with is my future as well. We've had our own issues in the past, mostly about beer and our boys...trying to blend two families hasn't always been easy...but things have been pretty good lately...so how soon will he get sick of all of this?
Mostly I think I just get a little lonely. That "empty nest" sort of thing. Sure, I have all the little ones around everyday, but also leaves me housebound, and craving some adult company, that's probably why I'm on here so much, you all have become an important part of my day.
You know, all this would keep the Bear busy for quite a while dispensing his wisdom!! Don't you miss him??? Imagine what he would have to say about all of this..think there would be some roarin going on!
Better go and get some stuff done around here...was putting some clothes away in the closet and shut the door on my toe...ripped one toenail clean off, OUCH! Checked the computer while I was waiting for it to quit throbbing..now have to get back at it. Darn, no pedicure for me tomorrow!! Kids gave me a "spa day" for our anniversay, was taking tomorrow off to do all that...guess plans have to change.
-Hugs to you all, hope everyone else is well, special prayers for you Boo and CaMama, always here for you.
Post Edited (babyplace) : 9/9/2007 11:50:25 AM (GMT-6)