I haven't heard of weak hands being associated with Sjogren's, although I do have weak hands and creaky knees. (Always though mine were either age or my Lupus.) Not sure about
hair issues being associated, either.
Dry eyes and fatigue are common with Sjogren's. Postnasal drip -- no idea but never heard of it with Sjogren's.
But you have a rheumy appointment on the way! Hang in there and I hope you can get this sorted out. Let us know what the Dr says and if you have further questions.
Lynnwood, Lupus & Sjogren's Moderator, Dx: 2000DIAGNOSING LUPUS & HW's LUPUS 101
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