hi wmnak... "if you have to ask if you should keep the child, then you have already answered your question."... I actually wasn't sure wihich way you were going to go on this... I was hoping... But this is sooo true. I have mentioned this to peiople a couple of times, but didn't think of it in my own situation.
This is a great reason for me to post on this board and I thank you all!! and, is it Suze Orman?... I love her. I like "people first, then money, than things." Actually, interestingly enough, it is that phrase that steers me away from my own finaincial objections to this sitiation at hand. People first. I guess putting people first can mean a number of scenerios, inlcuding ones you don't want to swallow.
and thirstyforchrist, I want to let you know that I am pretty much the end all in this situation, "personnel" wise and money wise. It's not good as they say.
well, might as well go for the three-count... serefena, I thought I wrote back yesterday, but guess not! Thanks for the welcome. It would be hard for me to handle either side of the situation, but I'll try to believe I can handle it, I'll have to. We all have to in our lives.
I know what a lifetime of depression I will have over this, depression hard lessened with medication. I've dealt with it from my son for years, and it is constant. I know I need not say anymore about depression here!! Keep the faith.. luckyrose