hon...I love you to death. from what I know of you, you're a great girl. trust me when I say this...I've been in your situation. this might be another one of those "harsh" posts, but I don't intend it to be at all. like always I'm just going by what I've heard from you so I might not know it all and don't mean to come off like I do. please don't take offense.
you're twisting the situation to suit your needs. he's said he's trying to move on. he told you just today, maybe yesterday, that he was trying to move on and being mean is the only way he knows how to do it. you take that as him loving you still and that's why he can't move on. the reason he has to be mean to you is because you won't let him move on. he has to be mean to you to get YOU to move on. while it's not the right approach, obviously no contact on his part would be the best thing, this is the only way he sees he can do this...get the point across to you. I don't know how old he is...but if he is around your age, guys are still pretty...I don't know how to say it without offending any guys...selfish, maybe? he obviously wants to move on, but at the same time he wants to take advantage of the fact that you're willing to do whatever he wants. sweetie...breakfast is not a way to repay you for anything.
I'm sorry...I've been in your situation. Friendship right now should not be an option. You are still too wrapped up in him to be friends and he's still too "selfish" to be a friend without using you. I'm not saying you can never be friends, but right now is not the time. Maybe a few years from now, yes, I know that seems like an eternity, but it's for the best. Please try your best to look at what we are telling you and know that it's coming from the heart AND from experience. *hugs*
Bipolar, panic disorder, PTSD, PCOS, hashimoto's disease/hypothyroidism, acid reflux, and in the process of being diagnosed with either crohns, colitis, or even lupus...who knows really! the docs sure don't lol. Too many meds to list!