I too, like Sarafena, don't understand why you would hand the power over to your husband and then be upset because he doesn't do things your way. If you've been doing it yourself, for years you know all the ins and outs. I had to take over my parents finances when they became ill, I hate doing it, there is never any money left over once bills are paid and because my stepmother had a gambling addiction there are many outstanding bills that I cannot fathom how to deal with. Most payments come out automatically, electric, phone, mortgage, rent (yup, we're paying a mortgage on a house that we can't live in),), taxes have been ignored for years, it is quite a mess. I will find us a way out of the mess but it's going to take time, patience and hard work. The thing about handing over the reins, is you have to let go of them.
Hypothyroidism, Fibromyalgia, Facet Joint Syndrome, High Blood Pressure, menopause, Migraines, Chest Pain, Anxiety and Depression/BiPolar II
Synthyroid .075mg., estradiol.5 mgs., Amyltriptilene, 100mgs, bedtime, Tylenol 3 PRN (six-eight, daily), Valium 7.5mgs. daily prn. Flexeril, prn (not so helpful), Zoloft,150mgs., Zomig approx. 12 per month, prn., Meds for High Blood Pressure, vary.