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Date Joined Dec 2007
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   Posted 6/30/2009 11:00 AM (GMT -7)   
So far so good. Haven't had a bad morn. Getting agitated at my husband because he says "you stress to much." Umm hello we have no income! I am not sure what to do about that because I filed for SSD & SSI. Its just a waiting game. He is used to be the one @ home with our daughter. She will be starting school soon so that won't be an excuse any longer. I am not sure why he isn't more pro-active on finding work. I know we have NO money and a car that needs gas to get to those jobs. I am trying my butt off to keep it together. I just don't know. I just want him to get a job. There are jobs online that he applies for he calls then they say they have no openings.
I am not sure if he is doing something majorly wrong or what. Or if he is honestly waiting for me to get a job?

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   Posted 7/1/2009 5:19 AM (GMT -7)   

Hi Peachlove,

Glad to hear you're feeling better.  I understand you are going through a difficult time right now and are waiting to see your pdoc. 

What is your husband's response when you tell him the realities of all of your stress?  I wonder why it isn't stressful for him?  Have you spoken to him about your concerns and why it is so difficult for him to find a job?  I get the feeling from you that he has been stalling for a very long time. 

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   Posted 7/1/2009 2:18 PM (GMT -7)   
Things have taken difficult turn. He may have been stalling but he will not any longer! Our roommate the one we moved in with when we got here to CO. She lost her job today. Due to a drug test. While its one of those situations where ok so you go find another. She is thinking of moving back in with her parents and leaving us hanging. I am guess right now because that is the way she is talking. I am trying to keep the anxiety and panic attacks to a minimum right now. She is about 5 years younger than my husband and so I have to give a little room there. My husband is starting to be more pro-active! I am very happy about that. I am just worried now that we will loose our only place to live. Since she is so young she is wants to go the office and talk to them. I told her not to ......they don't care where she works or how much she makes as long as the rent and bills get there money paid to them! So we shall see how the night ends. She has not been here all day. I slept till noon thanks to my daughter who woke me up said I want cartoons then I fell asleep and she woke dad up and said shh moms sleepin dad. I need you to change the channel. She cracks me up and keeps me going. I would have to say I am doing a lot better with the sleep I got! I am just tryin to take it easy and relax July the 7th is only 6 days away!

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Date Joined Mar 2009
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   Posted 7/2/2009 9:07 AM (GMT -7)   
Sorry to hear about the bad turn Peachlove. What happened with your roommate last night. It actually might not be that bad of an idea for her to talk to the landlord. With the economy so bad right now, they might give her a two week extension on the rent or use her security for a month's rent.

And today is the 2nd so you only have 5 days to go! YOU CAN DO IT!
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