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   Posted 3/15/2010 11:11 AM (GMT -7)   
I am going crazy with anger!!!! My soon to be ex booked a trip to California taking my two daughters with out consulting me first.  How could he do that to me, plus it's during Easter and he is taking them out of school for 3days!!! He is taking my girls away from me, what if he doesn't come back?!  I feel so lost right now and I don't know what to do.  I told him he was wrong for not consulting me first but talking to him is like talking to a wall.  I am having aniexity attacks and don't know how to deal with this, I am also so angry that I am taking it out on everyone........ Someone please help me!!!!!
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   Posted 3/15/2010 11:33 AM (GMT -7)   
Do you have a custody order in place (even a temporary one)? If not, I suggest getting one ASAP. They can usually get you in pretty quickly for a temporary order. Unfortunately I've been where you are and I know that anything related to your children will bring out the Mama Grizzly and no one is safe!
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   Posted 3/15/2010 12:17 PM (GMT -7)   
  I'm so sorry, ex's can be such evil things because they know exactly what to do to hurt you.  All i can offer is a shoulder to lean on and all the happiness i can muster for you. Others here have much more sage advice however i will say is to just hang in there and do the things you need to do so he cant do this to you again.  
   Lots of support and happiness.

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   Posted 3/15/2010 6:15 PM (GMT -7)   
Oh that would put me right round the bend!

I hope it gets sorted out. I'd definitely look into putting some legal limits on where he can take them without your prior permission.

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