Jason, sorry to hear about your plight. This is a very rough and nasty desease that has many ups and downs and no instruction manual. Right now you need to protect yourself and your baby. That is number 1.
After that it is all dependet on if her meds work or not, There is some here that have had good luck with meds, others, not so much. Its a complete mystery why some work and others dont. As for sticking it out or not, thats a tough one. This desease gets worse as we get older, not better. If you work very hard and get good meds, you are often lucky to achieve a truce with it.
Good luck and post more. We are here to help.
"If Life Gives You Lemons, Make Lemonade"
"It isn't my fault that i am BiPolar, It is my responsibility how i treat it so that i don't hurt others or myself." Happy Bill
Meds. Respirdal 0.5 a day, more if needed.