Can you please do me a favor? Do not do anything until you talk with your therapist.
Please understand I am not saying the following things to make you feel bad, just to point out things that you could do to better your relationship skills. Because I cannot help him for he is not asking for help.
1.You sewed a negative message into a pillowcase. Do you think that is really is a good relationship communication tool?
2."I can't marry someone who won't communicate with me." Well yes of course, but the thing is this is not cool relationship communication on your part either. Because it sounds like he might just be oblivious.
3. What is wrong with him saying he will try? All we can ask from people is to do the best they can at that moment in time. No one is always going to be perfect.
I hope you know that I do wish you well, and I also want you to behave in a manner that you can still hold your head up no matter what happens.
The communication style you (and he) are using might not be the best for the situation. Because it speaks not only for relationship communication issues, but also your own feelings of insecurity might just be hurting yourself here.
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