Whatever you do I think you need to protect yourself and that means avoid even the appearence of anything bad.
It sounds to me like you need a safe space away from her. At the very least get (temp.) lodgings and protect yourself, and her if you can, while you figure out what is going on. As you said she is on her way home, so something is going to happen when she gets home.
I get that you are her husband, but I do not have her side of the story here.
Like I said if you feel you are in danger then get out.
Well, she came in today with the police, in order to retrieve her Items.
Unbelievable....I'm lost for words. The police found no harm done. She basically told them that I would not allow her to leave the apartment or the marriage. I'm crushed. I guess she wasn't kidding about
filing a divorce. The hardest part is, I was willing to love her regardless of a diagnose finding. Thank you for your kind words, MMMNAVY... God bless