O. M. G.
So my future-mother-in-law calls and announces she and my fiance's sister are coming up for the town festival. At a really bad time for me when I would have been on a 2-hour trip to pick up my son.
I called my parents to see if they would bring my son and come over for lunch / supper since his family will be here too.
I don't get why my fiance was all upset about it. I needed the extra hour to CLEAN THE HOUSE. Because he gets so stressed and upset if the house is not clean when someone - ANYONE - comes over.
He left, finally. I'm not anxious now. I was reacting to his mood.
My parents and my son will be here soon. We'll make up a yummy supper and I don't give a **** if any of them (my fiance and fam) show up or not.
This stress kicked me out of my funk (yay). And I'm not heading straight for hypomania (double-yay). Change in routine can set me off, but this time it did in a good way. So far, lol.
I've been a bit all over the place, and I'm seeing it affecting my fiance. He has been swearing more - usually never. He has snapped at me a couple of times - usually never. I seriously need to get my head on straight.