I have just recently found out that the love of my life is bipolar and has been leading a life of lies. Im Not sure anyone will understand my situation but I'm in need of some real help. So here it is. I have learned that my wife was leading a double life one where she is the happy wife. The other she was dating an ex con. Who is not a good person. Selling drugs and making horrible life choices. As well as having a eating disorder. She has just recently came clean to me and says that she does want to be married to me. I told her that she should see a counselor which she has. And now they referred her to a psychologist but we are unable to get in until july. What do I do????? I refuse to throw in the towel. Because she is my world. But if anyone can give me any advice I would love to hear it. Because I do not fully understand it and I want to be supportive for her. And see her be the woman that she wants to be. I have been with her for almost nine years and married for almost 4 years. And I was unaware of this for over all the years and am wondering how to move forward without pushing her over the edge. Thank you for any response/advise/support/opinion it will help to hear another perspective.