Really? your 22, you will prob live another 60+ years and we don't have spinsters anymore because women can Choose to be single and its ok. Yes I'm ancient and single. Most importantly is your BP under control, do you have a psych dr. who is supportive etc.? Then you need to get some new friends, yes I know easier said than done and I don't know where the healthy BP's hang out, you could try a BP support group? Are you in College, do you have a job you like, hopes, dreams, goals? Until you find you Mr. Right is always gonna be Mr. Right Now. Yes, I'm somebody's mother, I have a 22 year old daughter who is BP and this is what I have told her.