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If someone has asthma or any other illness or sickness, I do not see that being a valid reason to leave them. However, this is just my opinion. I know everyone feels differently.
Someone can have something an illness and they can be a wonderful person and make a wonder partner. It is really up to you to know what kind of person this guys is and if he makes you happy. You have to know whether or not you see a future with him and you know that you can both have a life together. However, you have to make sure you read up on asthma and you are prepared in case he has an asthma attack. I am not sure how bad his asthma is, but ensure you can cope with it. So be sure to read up and talk to him about
it as well so you will know his background when it comes to asthma.
I would suggest you sit and think about
these things. If you realize that this is the person for you and you want to marry him, you need to sit with your parents and talk to them. Let them know that you have made a decision the guy they choose for you as he makes you happy, etc. and you would like their support in your decision. Let them know that you understand that he has asthma, etc., but you still want to proceed with a life with him.
I hope things works out for you.
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