How can you get a person to go and get a diagnostic for BP if she is difficult person to accept it

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   Posted 8/6/2017 8:36 AM (GMT -7)   
Please some advise on how can you get a person to get a diagnotic on BP

One night she hits you, she even screams to you that "she should cacht you in the face"
and in the morning she want to forget all about it and dont want you to go. Sure that night I didnt stay home. Came in the morning to pick my car cause she block me so I could not go with my car. But i just left and call an uber.

The other day I have my sons graduation from UNIVERSITY and you can see in her face the madness but its my kid graduation and she begin to call all her friends to go out cause as she said "Im not going to staid here sitting here doing nothing.

She constant is having her manic and depression events and panic attack lately have been coming up more frequently. Depression have been going lately from almost every week 2 or 3 of every 4 weeks. She is under a seriously economic situation and that had lead her to this, but she dont want to accept the situation cause she wants to continue her expending. We have been some adjustment but she denies to give up some things that shows me that she wants to present another thing in the outside. This kind of reation have make me think this is not a cohernt behavior and somrthing is wrong.

She always have to be in the outside going out hanging with people she can not be alone by her self she need to be with fiends hanging around drinking wine going out she never want to warm the house if she can be out 7 days a week she will go for it.

she always want to win all her discussions I always tell her "your going to win all your battles but your going to loose the war" "your going to loose me" she always in manipulatiing conversations , situations in her favor and if she can change or interpretate the most minimun thing she will do it just make it seen that she is the one who have the reason and your wrong.

So if you think that this is a behavoire of a BP please some advice will be helpfull and some advice on how can i get her to the doctor to be first diagnose and then begin a treatment.

Thanks again HVAC

Post Edited (hvac) : 8/6/2017 10:52:42 AM (GMT-6)

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   Posted 8/8/2017 5:14 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi hvac,

Just replied to your previous post. Have you tried talking to her about her behaviour and visiting a doctor?

I am sorry that she hits you. However, if she is abusive and you are unable to talk to her or get her to visit a doctor, I suggest you maybe give her some time and stay away from the abuse. This can he harmful to you and your health as well. You have to take care of yourself. If she is not willing to get help, there isn't much you can do for her until she is willing to accept and get help.

I hope thing will get better for you.

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