I am pregnant,and told my fiancee I am having some doubts. I said I wanted to think about
it. He seemed okay at first,but he is cycling and I was unsure how it would go. Later that same day,he called his mom and told her I'm pregnant without my permission. He told her I'm probably getting an abortion and I cheated on him so that's why I don't want the baby. So now his mom is in my business,not in a mean way but still in my business. He called my mom and brother too. He has said he's going to tell every member of his family I'm getting an abortion. He threatened to punch me once and I left. When I was gone,he apologized and begged me to come back but when I did it was more of the same. He has threatened to call a lawyer. He's said he's kicking me out and dumping me. He's saying I said things I didn't say. The odds of me getting him to take medication is very low. He promised me for months that he would get on meds and then recently told me he's not going to no matter what and I can just screw off if I don't like it. In the 8 years we've been together,he's only taken medication for a matter of months altogether. He wants kids very badly,but I'm not sure how the environment would be when he gets so mentally ill. I'm afraid if I have this kid things will not ever improve and I will be stuck raising a kid and dealing with his anger outbursts/insults/accusations of cheating for no reason(that often end in something being punched like a wall). I'm 26 and do not want to ruin the rest of my life. He has me really stressed out. I'm staying at my mom's. If you have any advice or similar experience,please share!
Post Edited (needingchange) : 7/12/2018 11:58:03 AM (GMT-6)