Susie I'm so sorry hearing about
I could not imagine losing mine especially since it seems like you understand how close we are just how you were with him. I do ask him how he's doing and talk to them both individually. I try to stay as neutral as possible but I'm not afraid to call him out if he's said something wrong or call out her own behavior.
It is helping me relieve some stress off my chest. I'm going to try to have us all do an activity together like going to the gym. We all want to tone up so I figured it'd be a good exercise to have something to do together but separately at the same time. Sorry for deleting my prior posts as I'm afraid one of them will find this thread. We're all in our 20s and he's also 3 years older than me.
Thank you so much Susie for hearing me out and letting me rant a little bit. I don't want my other family or friends hearing that side of her since she is extremely nice when she is.