Welcome to Healingwell sharalynn,
I'm sorry you're having so many difficulties. I don't have a bipolar child and really have no idea what mild symptoms of bipolar in children are. It is my understanding that ADHD symptoms and bipolar can be quite similar though.
I do think that if you are unhappy with your daughters pdoc that you should certainly find another.
Hope someone pops up that can be more helpful.
Good judgement comes from experience and alot of that comes from bad judgement.