Break up...Is he bipolar?

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Date Joined May 2006
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   Posted 5/30/2006 12:55 PM (GMT -7)   
Ok so i been dating this guy for about 4 months, we were doin great, He told me everyday how much he cared for me and treated me better then any guy ever has before. He acted so serious like he talked about moving in together and me goin on vacations with him and his family. I was with him pretty much everyday for these 4 months and then just one day he stoped answerin my calls and i didnt hear from him for about a week. I was so confused, i finally got him tlakin to me on text messageing and i said to him, if ur gonna break up wit me just do it cuz i think i at least deserve to know whats goin on. He said he didnt want to just stop talkin or chillin with me it was just a lot of stuff is on his mind and life is crazy for him right now. He said he has been really depressed and hated his life, all his friends had just stoped talkin to him recently and he was gettin in trouble with the law a lot latley. I hung out wit him later that night and he didnt even bring up us breaking up and he just acted very different and didnt seem happy at all. So the next morning i asked him if he wanted to go back to just being friends? and he said i guess so i mean its not that i regret asking u out or anything. Its just really cant have a g/f right now, if i was gonna it would obviously be you. And i asked if he wanted to see other people and he said no. and i told him if i wasnt goin to be seein him anymore i was gonna and he just said well i guess if u can find someone cooler then me go ahead. After this conversation he hugged me and kissed me and just stared at me and was like i still really like u a lot. I asked if he liked me the same as he use to and he said yea. and then he droped me off at my house cuz he had work. He had called me taht night and i talekd to him the next couple of days, buts its been almost a month now and we havnt actually hung out or even REALLY talked. Every time i do talk to him he just doesnt seem himself. And we were suppose to go to a huge festival together in june and even when we broke up he said he was stil gonna go wit me and he had just told me he cant afford to go wit me ne more. NOw i dont know what to do cuz i have no one to go with and its soon. He hasnt been working, and is in dept a lot of money. I just dont understand what happened to him? Ive read up on Bipolar and he matches everything that ppl have said about it. He went to being the nicest guy i have ever been around to the biggest ****. Im just confused on why or what set this off. He use to be who i talked to about everything and now hes not around. He seems to always try to make every conversation into a fight as well lately. The other day i talked to him and i said im sorry if i was bein a ***** to u the other day and he was just like yeah that seems to be the theme. and i asked why u say that and he was just like my life sucks. I asked what happened and he said he didnt wana talk about it but thanks. I then asked if he wanted to get out of the house and drive around for a lil bit cuz we use to do taht a lot and he said nah i need alone time i need to think aboout things but thanks. I just dont understand how he can go to not being able to not see me for a day for goin on a month now?   Before i dated him he was always a friend i had for years but he was always the guy that would disapear for awhile and then apear out of no where and call and want to hang out.  I have a friend that is bipolar and he seems to match him very much.  He seems to get upset or angry about EVERYTHING, it just doesnt seem like hes happy lately and he has no reason not to be for what i know.  He wont work anymore either and is in huge debt.  i dont know the person he is right now just doesnt even seem like him.  Im confused is this bipolar?  He is 20 years old.  Also when we were together he always thought really into things, and the smallest thing could happen and hed be down all day about it.  He use to get weird when hed drink as well.  He always thinks people dont like him to, that is another thing ive noticed. 

Post Edited (Ridiculous) : 5/30/2006 2:10:31 PM (GMT-6)

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Date Joined Feb 2005
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   Posted 5/31/2006 8:24 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Ridiculous,

Welcom to the forums, wow a realy long post. i think also he has bi-polar. does he have mania epesodes sometimes? like spending a lot of cash in a short period, or getting angry very quickly. does he have deep deppresion epesodes too? he could be a light bi-polar like me.
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Date Joined May 2006
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   Posted 5/31/2006 9:01 AM (GMT -7)   
yes even when we were still going out he could get weird like people use to come up to me and be like is he ok?  For example some nights if we are at a party he will get upset over nothin and just sit by himself and not talk to ne one or explain whats wrong. It could be the smallest thing too.  He use to always talk bout how hed have a lot of thoughts going on in his head at once.  He use to tell me he had a crazy side to him, like could get very angry and i have never seen that but now that we have broken up im startin to notice that.  He will get very angry quickly about nothing.  Also other times he will act VERY depressed when im talking to him. not really sure how to deal with this...
My friends brother is bi polar as well so i do know somewhat about this disorder adn have been around it.

Post Edited (Ridiculous) : 5/31/2006 2:16:46 PM (GMT-6)

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