Thanks, jerseycherries and Olivia. I tried to reply to each of you - but couldn't find a way to do it. I'm still learning my way around the site.
As one of my pdocs once said - "there isn't any magic bullet". He got that one right. But it's good to know that Geodon has been helpful for both of you.
Thanks for the nice welcomes.
PS Olivia - congratulations on becoming a moderator for BPD.