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Date Joined Aug 2007
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   Posted 10/2/2007 7:15 PM (GMT -7)   
I officially Hate 2007...... 
First an Update... Haven't bothered to reschedule Dr's appointment (was canceled by Dr's office) cause calm and Nice guy is gone and replaced with Mr " I hate the world and you made me this way"  we haven't spoken in a few days....
So in addition to my rollercoaster ride With him here are a few tid bits of this Soap Opra called my life and goings on for the last year...
Get a call from Social Worker.. need to go pick up My baby sisters kids as she has abonedened them with a 15 year old baby sitter... yep in addition to all her issues she has developed a crack addiction and can't function as a mother (I Have two and she has 3, that make 5 under the age of 6)   deal with that, get kids set up with my older sister after a few weeks as she is better equiped (her kids are teens, and she is not dealing with what may or may not be a BP Husband). 
Get a call from Police in another city, after another Sucide threat from Hubby. Think Oh God he's done it and learn My Baby Sis got arrested for stollen property and fraud and is trying to use MY NAME to be processed. Yep, almost gained my self a criminal record. 
My best friend had a miscarrige 3 weeks ago at 14 weeks witha baby she really wanted...
A girl I grew up with was Killed in a Hi-way accident Saterday night...
I learned today that my "loyal" Husband was seen at a local Hockey game last week while I was away with the girl he swears is just his friend and boldly lied to my face...
My Paternal Grandmother died this morning.... 
So I know most of this has anything to do with this forum, but I need to Vent... Thanks for listening....  

olivia of course
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Date Joined Jul 2006
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   Posted 10/2/2007 7:28 PM (GMT -7)   
Wow that is a lot to deal with in what seems like a short time.  I am sorry about your Dr. at least if that worked out, it would make other things a little easier.
I am sorry that your family situation is a bit out of control, wow you are strong, I would be freaking out right about now.  I'll bet this is not helping your mood one bit.
One child can be a hand full let alone having to take care of five, how did you do it?  Wow, I am so proud of you, you stayed strong in the midst of the storm.
It ****s what your baby sister tried to do to you, I'm glad that things were straightened out.  You do not need any more burdens in your life.
I am so sorry about your best friend, that is a rough thing to go through.  I am also soo sorry about your hubby, I know you had the benefit of the doubt for a while.
I lost my grandma in August and it still hurts a lot, so please understand I know your pain.  She raised me half of my life.
I am glad you were able to get things of your chest, this is too much to hold on to.  Please know we are here for you when you need us.

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   Posted 10/2/2007 7:43 PM (GMT -7)   
Here is just a hug (((((((((SW)))))))))). I am sooooo sorry all this is happening. It will get better.
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   Posted 10/2/2007 7:52 PM (GMT -7)   
SW, I am so glad you knew to come here and vent it out. YOU HAVE BEEN HEARD! I know for me, sometimes, just knowing that helps a lot. I am glad you have an older sister willing to be as responsible as you for those 3 kids. I know how hard it will be on all of you, but between the two of you, I am sure you will figure out the best way to handle things for those kids. Certainly, they do not deserve the wreck of a mother they have, and you do not deserve the identity theft attempted by your sister. I hope they throw the book at her. You and your older sister clearly have good heads on your shoulders and will step by step sort through how to best handle things. As to hubby...I'm sorry for your loss of hope. Perhaps it is time to take the "I'm done, you save yourself" approach...and mean it? Between the loss of a friend, your paternal grandmother and everything else...only one solution I can think of right now....put the kids to bed and take a relaxing BUBBLE BATH!!!!!!!! Then go to bed and get some sleep. Any loss is not easy and you will mourn for a bit, but given everything else going on I am sure you haven't even had time to FEEL any of this beyond just the information. When things calm down, don't be surprised if the feelings catch up. Breathe through it and send them prayers of peace and love. Breathe my dear; you are doing great under these trying circumstances. We're always here to listen and support. LFW

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Date Joined Sep 2007
Total Posts : 37
   Posted 10/2/2007 8:29 PM (GMT -7)   
So sorry for all that you are going through.

I hope you can keep your strength and be extra good to yourself too right now so you can "try" not to let all the stress and grief get the best of you. I worry that you might end up sick if you don't pay extra attention to yourself during all of this. I always felt like the really really bad stuff came in 3's but it's coming in double 3's or more for you. I will sure keep you and your family in my prayers.


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Date Joined Mar 2006
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   Posted 10/3/2007 2:43 PM (GMT -7)   


My heart continues to go out to you.  You have been through so much recently.  I am so glad you found this forum, and that you can talk to us.  Vent away here, 'cause everyone knows that's what I do here :-) .  It helps me more than talking to a lot of the people I have in my life 'cause they just don't understand like my HW family.

I am concerned for you regarding your husband.  I know he may be bipolar and if that's the case, it's so awful for him.  But I am worried about you in this mess.  And your kids too.  I know you are taking safety steps to make sure everyone is okay, I just wish there could be some professional support in place somewhere (I'm thinking more for him) so you wouldn't have to feel you need to take care of it all. 

I just know it's been so hard, and I just feel so much empathy for you.  We are here for you and I will hope for a miracle, or for something that will really help you with all of this. 

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.5mg Clonazepam, 50mg Trazodone
--Currently not on meds for bp--

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Date Joined Jul 2007
Total Posts : 68
   Posted 10/3/2007 4:06 PM (GMT -7)   


Hello.  I am more than sorry you have had to contend with all of these fires one after the other!  I am so very sorry about your sister's and your situation with the children but thank God the kids have you and your older sister to help out when the times got rough for them.  Sometimes family can be a definite savior when you need them too. 

I am not familiar with the history of you and your husband but can only guess the impact and toll it has taken on you.  As much as I love my partner, I really could not say either way how I would be able to deal with it should the same situation happen with us. 

You seem to be an incredibly strong person and a leader.  Like all the others on this forum have said, we are here to listen so please know you can vent as much pr as little as you need, ask questions, whatever might help you.

You will be in my thoughts and my prayers go out to you,


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They condemn what they do not understand

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