I'm so sorry you're not comfortable. I hope you like the results, and later on you feel it was worth it. I'd like to think that these times in our lives will just be a "blip" a thing that was really hard to go through, but a memory.
A couple of years from now, maybe this will seem like that, my friend. Cleveland won't be as fun without you, you know. I really hope you can come, that we pick a weekend you and DH can come to.
Say hi to him for me
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." -Confucius