One of the very first things you learn about
with this dämned disease are patient's rights. I would definitely call the surgeon's office, explain nicely that I have too many concerns to wait three more weeks to talk to him and if they cannot "fit you in right away", ask them what other surgeon they would recommend and would it be okay if you came and got all your records to take to this other surgeon.
Do NOT simply pass this off or wait three weeks. I know what you are going through and the mental distress this guy is causing is, frankly, bad medicine.
Get on the phone first thing tomorrow and find someone to see you Mon. I was fortunate enough that my onc, rad guy, and surgeon worked closely together with me. I was the a topic of an every Fri meeting. I think that is what you need, a team working FOR you.
Please let us know what happens.
A good friend will bail you out of jail...
but a true friend will be sitting
next to you saying,
"Dâmn... that was fun!".