First, I know it's not easy but try to take some deep breaths. I'm positive you can't relax so I'm not even going to suggest that. Today is already Friday and Wednesday will be here quickly.
My point is you're doing the right things. Just keep at it. I'm sure there will be some answers for you this week, but if there aren't or you don't agree just keep making phone calls. Don't think about
past things, look ahead to getting information and answers and hopefully peace of mind.
You can request a bx immediately. In fact, that's what I'd probably do. The only way to really know whether or not it's BC is through BX. That will definitely give you an answer and then you can go on from there.
I'm glad you came here BUT I'd be really HAPPY if you didn't join this group. We're all very nice but our common denominator is BC. We'll all help you as much as we can, even hold you up when you can't do it yourself as you pursue this thing and wait for answers. Once there IS an answer we'll go on from there. Sending you gentle hugs for strength and prayers for peace of mind. Luci
In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me lay an invincible summer. Albert Camus