I was 38 when my husband found my lump. It's a scary thing. The doc said at the time that he wanted me to wait before getting it checked, but I went to the city for a second opinion to a breast surgeon. I'm so glad I did. The ultrasound is a great thing. Even better is a needle biopsy guided by an ultra sound. That will tell you everything you need to know.
Good luck and let us know how it turns out. We'll be thinking of you and all coming on the pink cloud express to be with you (that's our plane we all travel in to join our sisters when they have stressful appointments). We wear pink feather boas, pink underwear, and the like.
Yes, it's about as hilarious as you think it is.
Look, please bring someone with you, and know you may not absorb everything you hear at the appointment. I'll be thinking of you and praying for you.
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." -Confucius