Had lunch with JoAnnie's "Benito" today...

New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
[ << Previous Thread | Next Thread >> ]

Veteran Member

Date Joined Jul 2003
Total Posts : 1564
   Posted 1/26/2007 3:20 PM (GMT -7)   
and he asked about all of JoAnnie's old friends from the board and how you all were doing. 
I think today was the first day we were able to talk about her and laugh together without one of us holding back a tear.  It was terrific to see him in good spirits.
He's even going to "the boat" to gamble this weekend, which is something you old-timers know JoAnn loved to do.  I don't know that he's gone since she passed away. 
Anyway, it was good to see him in such good spirits.  Their son, Mike, (Lori, JoAnnie had such hopes for him and you!) has graduated from college, moved back home, and is working at a large financial institution here, doing very well.
The only blemish is that JoAnnie's little dog, Mia, has lupus, so she has been undergoing chemo.  She seems to be responding well, though. Benito didn't have the heart to put her down, which is what the vet had recommended.
Just wanted to share for those of you who knew her well.  The rest of you...boy, did you ever miss out!
Love and hugs...

Veteran Member

Date Joined Jul 2003
Total Posts : 829
   Posted 1/26/2007 8:25 PM (GMT -7)   
Our beloved leader of the Hell's Hooterless Angels, JoAnn (without a hyphen) was someone as opionated as I, and I loved it. It must go with the name. I will always picture her with the pink leather jacket, on the pink Harley, riding shotgun on our midnight forays as we all cruised our way down the blacktop. I can still hear her laugh.

I am glad to hear that the family is doing well. I think of her so often. Just the other day I was going through some photos and found one of her and me. I am glad you updated us. It helps to know what the families are doing. It doesn't make the loss any easier but it's nice to know what has happened to them.

She's up there just smiling down on them like she smiles on us. I know how much you must miss her, Bev, but I know she misses you, too.

Love You, Jo-Ann
A good friend will bail you out of jail...
but a true friend will be sitting
next to you saying,
"Dâmn... that was fun!".

Veteran Member

Date Joined Jul 2003
Total Posts : 2272
   Posted 1/27/2007 10:24 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Bev-
Thanks for the post. I always wonder about the families of those that we have lost. I used to keep in touch with Julie's mother and with Susan's mother, but not sure how to find them these days.

Funny you said she had high hopes for me and her son! I remember in St. Louis she was trying to play match maker, but I think she fogot even then that I am at least 10 years older than her son...he may have been in high school when I met her?? It was pretty funny though, thanks for the smile.

Gee, those old days in the village were something special, that is for sure. We got a great thing going now here, but it was a really amazing time for such a group...

Hugs to us all-

Veteran Member

Date Joined Jul 2003
Total Posts : 2921
   Posted 1/28/2007 8:34 AM (GMT -7)   
I thinj it is wonderful that you keep in touch with Benito so faithfully. He sounds like a great guy and I am sure he is happy to see you and talk. Thanks for telling us about Mike, too. Wouldn't JoAnnie be proud of him? She already was when he was still in HS. Thanks for sharing and keeping us updated. Hugs MK

Veteran Member

Date Joined Jul 2003
Total Posts : 2044
   Posted 1/29/2007 1:11 PM (GMT -7)   
Awww, this was such a nice post, Bev. Glad to hear Benito is doing well. Just thinking about JoAnn makes me smile. She was so funny and so kind. I remember her hugs in St. Louis when I got a little weepy thinking about the enormity of our gathering and what the future might be. She said I just had a tender heart. Well, I think she did, too. Hugs, Lauri

"Go confidently into the direction of your dreams. Live the life you always imagined" Thoreau
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
Forum Information
Currently it is Monday, January 22, 2018 2:54 PM (GMT -7)
There are a total of 2,920,222 posts in 320,424 threads.
View Active Threads

Who's Online
This forum has 159464 registered members. Please welcome our newest member, blnyc2018.
602 Guest(s), 16 Registered Member(s) are currently online.  Details
Dahlias, wayup, Gemlin, chubabubba, blnyc2018, reachout, js100, Lynnwood, Mergirl, mareish, FLBeachgal, MaryBee1975, momem3, Gailkiosk, straydog, deedee