Glad to hear that Carolyn is going ahead with her life and doing well. My old, tired refrain is that attitude is so very important. Frankly, her blood pressure worries me more, especially that bottom number. She's not taking any bp meds? That astounds me. No matter how she gets upset with you, I'd beat that drum loudly.
Saw an ad from some lawyer group this a.m. on T.V. that was talking about "if you have had surgery and had this MESH...." Anyway, thought of you. Have you talked to any more attorneys about your situation. I wish I could have written down the name of the mesh, but my recognition of what they were talking about came too late. I'll be ready the next time it comes on.
As far as I know, lol, I'm doing great. My husband has had some serious problems, but hope that is being taken care of by the meds they've given him. Hey, it's always something. Getting old can be a real b...., but the alternative is worse!
Big, big hug to you, Glenda