Welcome to HW you will find pleanty of careing and supportive friends here.
I didn't realize I had CFS untill after I was dignosed with fibro. All I know was I didn't have the energy to do the smallest thing. We knew something was wrong because I have always been a very active person but we just didn't know what. After many many test from my dr he dx I had fibro and CFS is part of it. Which explained a lot but the dissapointment of no cure of course has given me anziety and depression.
I feel I am one of the lucky one's because I have only had a few painc attacks and they wasn't very bad.
I want to let you know you are in my prayers and I hope things get better for you soon.